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An Excerpt From: REDIAL 1-800-SEX4YOU

Copyright © CHRIS TANGLEN & MICHELE R. BARDSLEY, 2005.

All Rights Reserved, Ellora's Cave Publishing, Inc.

As the door opened, my stomach did this weird thing where it was sort of bouncing and twisting at the same time, I was terrified that I would start sweating in a most profuse and unattractive manner, I just knew that I wouldn’t be able to get it up and my disgrace would be a legendary tale in the annals of 1-800-SEX4YOU history. (“Hey, remember that doofus whose penis remained shamefully flaccid? Hee hee hee hee hee!”)

I was kinda nervous.

A little-known fact that you won’t find in any textbooks is that if you go without sex for three years, your virginity is restored. So I’d been a born-again virgin for, oh, about eight weeks now, which I’m sure is what accounted for my stomach’s energetic gymnastics routine.

Before that, I’d only been with one woman. The woman. My wife, Tara. We met at fifteen, fell in love at seventeen, got married at nineteen and had six amazing years together.

I wish I could say that she left me, or that I came home from work early one day to find her in bed with my best friend and/or his brother. But that’s not what happened.

She died. Cancer. The doctors gave her six months, but we only got four. She didn’t even get to see our daughter’s first birthday.

Don’t worry, we’ll get back to my comical impotence anxiety in a moment. I just need to explain the source of it. This won’t be a bummer story, I promise! After all, you already know that I end up on a bed wearing nothing but a half-hood, right?

Anyway, I was so devastated by my loss that if it weren’t for my daughter Melissa, I’m not sure what I would have done. What I did do was throw myself entirely into being Super Dad, soothing a crying baby and changing poopy diapers with superhuman skill. I would have given anything not to have to raise her alone, but I can say with no false pride that I was damn good as a single dad.

Interesting SidenoteA single dad pushing a stroller through a park is an absolute babe magnet. A single dad who struggles not to break into tears when explaining that his wife passed away could probably be naked and thrusting away within ten minutes or so. Of course, I was such an emotional wreck that I didn’t even realize this until my friend Howard pointed it out, using the word “pussy” more times than was polite.

For three years I raised my daughter and worked at my job on a construction crew, a job that I loved. I could never handle sitting at a desk all day. This kept me outside and allowed me to get plenty of exercise, which kept me in good shape despite some poor eating habits that had developed since Tara’s death. It didn’t help that Melissa always saved me half of a cookie from day care.

Three years of no sex.

Honestly, it didn’t really bother me. I wasn’t looking to replace Tara and I was too busy for a relationship anyway. I had no problems satisfying my own sexual needs in the shower, especially since I’m ambidextrous.

The day before my thirtieth birthday, my friend Jennifer came to visit. She’d been Tara’s best friend since the two of them were eight, and we’d always gotten along really well. Our friendship had strengthened after Tara died. Nothing romantic, of course (Jennifer had a husband and two kids) but we’d shared a lot of tears together and genuinely enjoyed each other’s company.

She seemed really nervous.

“Hi,” she said. “Happy birthday!”

“You’re a day early.”

“I know. But I brought you your present!”

“Where is it?”

“Let’s sit down.”

We walked into the living room and sat down on the couch. Jennifer, an admittedly striking blonde, crossed her thin legs and smiled at me. “Feeling old yet?”

“Nah. Thirty is no big deal.”

“Remind me of that when I’m sobbing next month. So, Jeff and I were talking, and you know, you haven’t dated since Tara died.”

“I do know that.”

“She wouldn’t want that. She’d want you to move on with your life. In fact, she’d probably kick my ass if she knew I let you go this long without trying to meet somebody new.”

I had a horrifying feeling that I could see where this was going. “Please tell me you didn’t set me up on a blind date.”

“No…not exactly.”

“What havoc have you wreaked with my life, Jennifer?”

“No havoc. Have you heard of 1-800-SEX4YOU?”

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